The rules of dating in times of WhatsApp – The Universal

  IM applications have
 changed the way people, especially the younger generation,
 They communicate with each other.
 

 

  However, experts in psychology believe
 in relationships, applications such as Line, Telegram, and Hangouts
 all WhatsApp can cause arguments, resulting from misunderstandings.
 

 

  The nonverbal language, gestures, looks
 and tone are not transmitted in these tools, missing information
 valuable among the partners, and whose absence can cause messages
 a wrong meaning or a different meaning intended.
 

 

  Therefore, and as mentioned on the site
 ABC.es, to prevent any eventuality and misunderstood, psychologist
 he expert in cognitive-behavioral therapies, Paula Borrego Iglesias, developed a
 few tips that considers important for healthy living with partner
 technology without affecting the relationship.
 

 

  The important things, in the face
 

 

  It is recommended that the important things are to
 It is face to face. Given the absence of nonverbal language, there are times
 that the wording of the message is not enough. While emoticons are added
 the conversation, they can not replace the effect of the tone,
 look and gestures when communication is made in person.
 

 

  Message seen does not mean answering
 

 

  cases of obsession are hereby receive
 reply receiver by the sender of the message. In addition, since
 WhatsApp several months has included a blue double check that warns when a
 message has been read.
 

 

  “Accessing the application does not always
 It means we want to communicate. Often no longer accessible to send
 or read new messages, but to re-read old messages, check past
 switching times, see if someone is online … “, acknowledges the
 psychologist, who points out that when an immediate response is not obtained many
 People interpret it as a lack of interest on the other.
 

 

  “Especially when it comes to couples,
 usually it unleashes imagination with negative thoughts that generate
 mistrust and instability in the relationship. If we really worried about something, not
 we must look for the answer among the messages. “
 

 

  also overcome a separation is made
 especially tricky to temptation and curiosity to know the state
 Online or the time of the last connection of the other person.
 

 

  Communication, not entertainment
 

 

  For the psychologist must use WhatsApp
 realized as a communication system and not as a source of entertainment.
 It is also recommended to leave the habit of consulting each way
 time application, and be able to silence it. A simple gesture that we
 help you more fully enjoy our relationships.
 

 

  The ability to keep in touch
 with all our friends we lose focus on what is us
 happening here and now, this can disturb your partner as it transmits
 the feeling that the important thing for us is somewhere else, not in their
 company.
 

 

  “If we silently application and
 we focus on the people with whom we are physically,
 We will enjoy more of their presence. However, if we try to meet several
 things at once most likely will not enjoy any. Remember there
 a time for everything and something for every moment, “said the doctor.